A month-by-month checklist to help in planning the event of your lilfetime!
12 MONTHS BEFORE
- Visit a bookstore and buy a wedding planner or organizer
- Talk with your fiance and all parents about the “big picture”
- Decide on and book a ceremony & reception site
- Start shopping for your dress
- Choose your attendants
- Mail save-the-date cards
- Publish your engagement announcement in local newspapers
10 MONTHS BEFORE
- Start researching all other vendors (caterer, photographer, baker, florist..etc)
- Visit your clergymember for premarital requirements (if any)
8 MONTHS PRIOR
- Book your other vendors (caterer, photographer, baker, florist..etc))
- Choose and order your dress
- Register for your gifts
- Begin the guestlist
6 MONTHS PRIOR
- Start researching the honeymoon
- Plan the details with all of your vendors
- Order all wedding stationary
- Researve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests
- Secure rentals (if applicable)
4 MONTHS PRIOR
- Finalize your honeymoon plans and make bookings
- Finalize the guest list
- Make an appointment for your first dress fitting
- Order your wedding rings
- Make an appointment with your hairstylist for a practice run and final appointment
- Schedule the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
- Select and reserve tuxedos for the groom & groomsmen
- Book a hotel room for the wedding night
- Choose and order favors
2 MONTHS BEFORE
- Visit your officiant to go over vows or start writing your own
- Buy a guest book
- Shop for lingerie, honeymoon clothes, luggage
- Have your wedding portraits taken
- Check your state laws concerning marriage requirements
- Mail your invitations
- Choose gifts for all attendants
- Arrange your or your fiances move (if applicable)
- Research name change requirements and get forms
6 WEEKS BERFORE
- Schedule the final dress fitting
- Pick up the rings
- Get programs printed
- Plan your bridesmaids’ party
- Write thank-you notes as you receive gifts
- Send your announcements to the newspaper
- Make copies of ceremony readings for those involved
- Buy each other a wedding gift
2 WEEKS BEFORE
- Get your marriage license
- Submit list of must-take shots to the photographer & playlist to musicians
- Arrange the seating plan
- Confirm honeymoon reservations
- Break in your shoes
- Write toasts for the rehearsal dinner and reception
1 WEEK BEFORE
- Pack for the honeymoon
- Check on ATM/Credit card usage at honeymoon site
- Give final guest count to caterer
- Confirm times, dates and any other details with your wedding vendors
- Keep up with thank-you notes
- Remind all attendees of the rehearsal details
- Throw the bridesmaids’ party
- Pick up your dress a few days before the wedding
1 DAY BEFORE
- Trerat yourself and your mom to a manicure and pedicure
- Place a “touch base” call to your vendors
- Hold the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner
DAY OF THE WEDDING
- Eat breakfast
- Relax
- Enjoy your day!
